Navigating Imperfect Alliances: Transparency, Values, and Accountability
Transparency and accountability are the foundation of everything I stand for. Recently, I’ve realized that in my pursuit of promoting causes that matter, I’ve sometimes amplified voices or organizations that didn’t fully align with my values. I want to take a moment to be upfront about that. It’s important to me that I’m transparent with you all, and moving forward, I’ll continue to hold myself accountable to you and to my core values.
At the heart of it, I’ve always tried to amplify work that brings about positive change. Whether it’s mutual aid, organizing, or support for marginalized communities, I’ve been drawn to people and movements that are doing the work—real, tangible work. My support was never about endorsing everything a person stands for, but amplifying the impact they’re having. It’s been about the cause, the collective care, and the idea of building something better together.
But here’s the thing: as I’ve learned more, I’ve come to realize that some voices or organizations I’ve supported hold views that contradict the inclusive, intersectional values I strive for. Whether it’s exclusionary rhetoric about gender, race, or identity, I’ve had to reckon with the uncomfortable truth that my support might’ve inadvertently enabled harmful ideas. I’ll always be open about my mistakes and my learning process. This doesn’t erase the work that’s been done, but it also doesn’t mean I can stay silent when those actions or words are harmful to others.
No one is perfect, and many of the people I’ve admired and supported are, in some ways, imperfect—doing good work in one area, but holding beliefs that harm in others. This doesn’t mean I disregard their contributions, but it does mean I need to critically assess who I’m backing. The reality is that some people, even with the best intentions, have blind spots, and it’s on us to be honest about when those blind spots turn into harm. It’s about learning how to support without blindly endorsing everything someone says or does.
This is a tough one, and I know it’s not an easy conversation to have. But I think it’s necessary for progress. Moving forward, I’m committed to holding my platform to the highest standard. This means I’ll be more intentional with who I amplify and why. My commitment to inclusivity will always be at the forefront. So, from here on out, I’ll ensure that the voices I lift up truly reflect values of inclusivity, respect for all identities, and a commitment to collective care.
I’ll make sure to:
Do deeper research before spotlighting someone or something.
Listen to marginalized voices who are often the first to recognize when harm is being done.
Engage in ongoing conversations that challenge my own biases and perspectives.
And, most importantly, I’ll continue to be open and honest with all of you if I make a mistake or if I need to reassess my stance. Transparency is important to me, and I want you all to feel like we’re in this together.
I also want to hear from you. How do you navigate these situations in your own life? Have you ever supported someone or something that, over time, didn’t align with your values? How do you balance admiration for someone’s work with the need to challenge their harmful beliefs? Let’s keep this conversation going. Share your thoughts and any organizations or people you know who are doing inclusive work in ways that reflect our shared values of empowerment and care.
Navigating these situations is messy. There’s no perfect answer. But the goal is always progress—progress toward a more inclusive, compassionate world. We can continue to learn, reflect, and grow together, and I’m committed to doing just that. Thanks for being part of this journey. Together, we can keep making better, more intentional choices and create the kind of community we want to see.
With Love,
Mia Marie
